Why Helping nature is required in family?

Helping nature means Voluntary action intended to help or benefit another individual or group of individuals, such as sharing, comforting. I would like to tell one story about helping nature.

Once there was a small boy named Shankar. He belonged to a poor family.  One day, he was crossing through the forest carrying some woods. He saw an old man who was very hungry.  Shankar wanted to give him some food, but he did not have food for his own.  So he continued on his way.  On his way he saw a deer who was very thirsty.  He wanted to give him some water, but he did not have water for himself.  So he went on his way ahead.  Then he saw a man who wanted to make a camp but he did not have woods.  Shankar asked his problem and gave some woods to him.  In return, he gave him some food and water.  Now he went back to the old man and gave him some food and gave some water to the deer. The old man and the deer were very happy.  Shankar than happily went on his way.

However, one day Shankar fell down the hill.  He was in pain but he couldn’t move and no one was there to help him.  But, the old man who he had helped before saw him; he quickly came and pulled him up the hill.  He had many wounds on his legs.  The deer that Shankar had gave water saw his wounds and quickly went to forest and brought some herbs.  After sometime his wounds were covered.  All were very happy that they were able to help each other.

Moral of this story is “if you help others then they will helps you. 

In a family if you are stressed or feeling low they can help you by talking things through, being there for you or providing emotional support. Family members can helps with practical support and also emotional support.

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 What is Understandings?

 Means the knowledge and ability to judge a particular situation in the family. In family everyone understands with each other when they mingle with one another they can easily understand the character and nature of the people in the family. 

In family a person first understand himself and later what someone thinks about him or her. Understanding the self is ability to understand his or her own thought or action.

Respect is an important characteristic of healthy families. Family members accept that they each have their own personalities, qualities and interests. Everyone plays an important role in the family. 

When there is conflict between family members, it is resolved in a positive and healthy manner. Family members also acknowledge each other's accomplishments and show appreciation for other members

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Is Happiness is important in family?

Happy is one of the more important things in the life. While individuals may define success or measure happiness differently, there are some basic qualities of a happy life that seem to be universal. Happiness is a sense of well-being, joy, or contentment. When people are successful, or safe, or lucky, they feel happiness. The "pursuit of happiness" is something this country is based on, and different people feel happiness for different reasons. The situation hopefully encourages people to focus on the key things in life which, the research says – and, to a large extent, they know – really make them happy: relationships with family, friends, contact with the natural environment, and so on,” Telling some jokes and mingle with the family is gives the happiness.

 Your health is the most important component of happiness; if every member in the family has a good health then all are living happily in the family. Money is probably one of the most essentials for happiness. But money doesn’t buy you happiness. It’s usually said by the very people who seem to have made a very happy life for themselves by having a great deal of money. Maintaining a good relationship with a family is also providing the happiness. A person who loves himself and accept himself is become a happy person.

The word happiness is relative and it varies in terms of personal belief and experience. According to me a Happy Life is something that helps me to be content from my inner self. As depicted earlier, happiness varies in terms of personal belief, I believe in the happiness that not only satisfies me, but also makes my near and dear ones feel good.

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Is Relationship important for a family?

Human relation is fundamental in a civil society. Relationship means the way in which two or more people or things are connected, Relationship is more important in the world. At every stage of life our relationship and families present with joys and challenges. Relationship is completely subjective and no clear cut rules can be defined on it.

Healthy Relationships are important to everyone. They take place between individuals as well as in groups. Healthy relationship includes the respect, honesty, trust, communication.  In a healthy relationship, if something is bothering you, it’s best to talk about it instead of holding it in. Respect our family members it is helps to maintain the good relationship with family. Disagreements are a natural part of healthy relationships, but it’s important that you find a way to compromise if you disagree on something. Try to solve conflicts in a fair and rational way.

 Relationships that are not healthy are based on power and control, not equality and respect. Although every family is different, there are certain characteristics that healthy families share. The quality of the relationship is more important than family configuration. A healthy family relationship provides members with the support, encouragement and empathy that they need.

 

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Is family requiring a friendship?

Friends forever....    friends or friendship never end, Friendships are among the most complex but meaningful relationships in our lives. This friendship is often run deeper than family ties, and sometimes last longer than our relationships with   lovers. As my opinion about friendship is good there is no matter about girl friend or boyfriends. I have a good friendship circle, friend’s helps in all time like a family members. Friends are sharing everything not only feelings or happy, even food, dress, money. We are making new friends every time. Making new friends is good but old friends are more important than new friends.

Friends and family are true cause of happiness. So friendship is required in a family. Parents treat the child as friendly that time a child never tell lie with his parents and never maintain any secrete in his mind because he known’s about his family. If you have only money, you will be lonely and the only thing you can do is buy things that don’t really have any value if you have no one to share it with. Being lonely in a huge house and with lots of stuff just lying around might be great for show and all, but when it comes to things that truly matter, friends and family, are really important. If in a family we close to the everyone it helps to share everything within the family without any hesitation or fear, we can easily talk with others.

There are many use of family  friendship include improve your skills, making you generally happier, knowing yourself better, becoming inspired to reach your goals, advancing your career, helping you meet romantic partners, and living a longer and healthier life.

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Here I wrote a blog about family:

 What are the qualities are required for a good family required

What is a Family means?

   Family is a group of people where people live in together. In family they share their food money and everything with family members and they take care with one another. In my family all are supporting me and helps me a lot. When me and my brother, sister did any mistake that time my parents are helps us and give the suggestion to us. Joint family is better than single family, but in some case single family is better than joint family. Family is principle institution for socialization of children. If we lives in joint family we learn the culture, tradition, how to give respect and speak with others. In single family we also learn these things but not much as learn from the joint family. A primary concept in family systems theory is that the family includes interconnected members, and each member influences the others in predictable and recurring ways. From our families we learn skills that enable us to function in larger and more formal settings, such as school and the workplace. Family experiences also shape our expectations of how the larger world will interact with us.  Family systems theory focuses on family behavior rather than individual behavior. Family has the organic link with the society. Family is first school for children’s. When a child born first he or she learn from his or her family culture and nature. Family influence the child how to behave bin the society and how to give the respect to others, how to treat a person in the society these all things are a child learn from his family by seeing them. If the family background is not good later the child is learn the same things from the family. Family members must have the character to give respect to everyone and treat the child equally without any partiality. Maintain the good relationship with everyone in the family. Family is important at the time of depression, that time they provide the suggestion to who is under the depression.

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Flower pics

 1) Bird of paradise:

Bird of paradise is an unusual name for a flower; this exotic flower is known as bird of paradise owning to its shape. It is also known as crane flower and belongs to Straitlaced family,   with its unique shape and vibrant colors. It is one of most beautiful flowers present in the world.

2).Passion flower

Passion flower is a perennial vine with over 50 species and it belongs to the passionflower family. Purple blue and white flower consists of ten sepals and petals and is around 10 cm wide. It is in unique form. This flower has high medicine value.

3). Bleeding Heart:

It is almost fairly like blossoms are a traditional favorite in shady gardens.  The flower is either red, pink or white and it appear in April and June.